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Finding myself

The BYU-Idaho talk given by Corey Bell titled: A Hero's Journey, will be something I will rewatch, save for young women's lessons, and shown to my daughters many times. It was that good. The topic covered was inspirational and broad reaching because it applies to everyone on earth. It is also a topic I think many of us are searching for answers for. The questions he poses are: How do I change the world? Do I really have what it takes? Do I have a special calling on earth?

I have many thoughts and take aways to work on after watching this and I am going to list them all here to be held accountable to make sure I follow up.
1-I am going to ask five people that I know well what I do well.
2-I am going to write a letter to someone who I am grateful for and will read it to them.
3-I am going to ponder the questions: What problem was I put on the earth to fix? and When was the last time I lost track of time doing something I love?

The last thought I do not want to forget from this talk is the idea of the paradox of our life's journey. My journey is all about me, but not about me at all. This is a fascinating and exciting idea to think about. It makes my journey feel not so self centered because I am not just finding myself to focus on myself. I must find myself so that I can help others and change the world. Or maybe better said: WHILE I find myself, the world will change.


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